By Kevin Wachter
This is my final season. We’ll compete in the Stenger Invitational and in one summer tournament to better prep our gentlemen for high school ball.
It has been an incredible journey to watch over the past 8 years these little boys of 5-6 years of age grow into fine young men and competitive athletes. Of the 21 players on my squad, 18 of them tell me they are going on to play high school ball at Arvada West, Arvada, RalstonValley and Pomona. What a great legacy for the Edge Organization. They are exceptional young gentlemen that have competed with character, resilience and effort through the fall and spring and I’m confident they’ve taken with them the values and experience exemplifying the mission of Edge Soccer.
Win or lose, I see each of these soccer players as champions—ones of whom I’ve been privileged to contribute to their lives. I’ve seen slow, clumsy goofs become big, strong competitors. I’ve seen cocky, talented hot dogs become driven team players and leaders. I’ve seen unmotivated loafers become intense competitors. I’ve seen selfish, cranky punks with attitudes become exemplary team motivators. And I’ve seen Todd and all of you be very helpful, supportive, active listeners and available over the years.
These transformations could not have occurred without the incredible, tireless and enthusiastic support of the parents. Another blessing for me has been to have understanding, mostly patient and always openly communicating parents. Although we have not been without some confrontations over these many years, the occasional issues have been quickly addressed and resolved without any residue of ill will. These young men are who they are because of the love and dependable presence and support of this exceptional group of parents. So many of them have made this journey better for their children serving as trainers, refs, linesmen, assistant coaches, emergency coaches, statisticians, ball chasers, party planners, and refreshment suppliers. My special commendation goes out to those who have carried the responsibility of team manager so competently, only four mothers served in that role for us over our 8 years together.
If someone asks you, Why should I coach? Tell them: “This is a rare privilege you have to contribute to the lives of our children beyond just sport. This is your opportunity to make a difference in the young people’s lives. Yes, teach them all you can about the game but beware, there is more to it. The question is not, why should you coach, but, ‘Are you ready to accept the responsibility and opportunity to impact the lives of these kids?’ Do you want to contribute to the joy, tragedy and exhilaration of watching little kids become athletes?” Or maybe the question is, “If you have something worth sharing with these kids, how can you not coach?”
I’m thankful and humbled by my experience with this team. My life is forever enriched by the myriad memories of coaching this team within this organization. It is with great pleasure and deep melancholy that I complete my tenure as coach of our U14 Option 1, Edge Spartans.